Who We Are…

A softer space to care for your life, your home, and the woman you’re becoming.

You don’t need another productivity system, another calendar to chase, or another voice telling you to do more.

You’re craving something gentler. Something grounding. Something that helps you clear the noise, reconnect with what matters, and move forward with intention—not hustle.

The UNDONE Community™ is a calm, supportive membership designed to help you gently release what isn’t serving you, reset your mind and home, and rebuild your life with rhythm, beauty, and truth—one month at a time.

The undone community is for you if…

You’re tired of feeling like:

  • Your home is never quite done and always needs something

  • You’re juggling too much and losing yourself in the process

  • You crave peace, structure, nourishment, and support—but without shame or pressure

  • You want a life that feels meaningful, grounded, and true to who you are

  • You’re ready to step into a year of clarity, softness, and intention

If you nodded “yes” to even one of these… you belong here.

each month includes…




Reflection prompts for emotional clarity

A beautifully designed Monthly Reset Kit


A guided UNDONE Method focus for your home + life


Homemaking support + gentle structure


Community connection & encouragement

Simple habit building tools



+ Support to stay grounded, peaceful, and intentional — without perfection pressure

This is a space to breathe. To reset. To come back home to yourself.

choose to live this year differently.

not harder.

Not Busier.

Just more you.


Our Story

“This is a place to feel held, seen, and supported.‍

this isn’t just a membership.

it’s a refuge. a rhythm. a reminder that you don’t have to hold everything alone.

you deserve a space where peace is possible, progress is gentle, and you life feels like it belongs to you again”

Lauren Nicholsen is a homemaker, creator, and founder of The Undone Community, a supportive membership for women who want to release overwhelm, reset their rhythms, and rebuild a life that feels peaceful and intentional.

For over a decade, Lauren has welcomed women into her Napa Valley home through YouTube (170K+ subscribers) and Instagram (54K+ followers), sharing cooking, decorating, organizing, and homemaking with warmth and honesty. Over time, she realized women needed more than inspiration. They needed permission to slow down, be honest, and rebuild when life feels overwhelming.

A mother of four and former real estate professional, Lauren created The Undone Method™, a three-phase approach: release what no longer serves you, reset your mind and home, and rebuild with intention and beauty.

Today, The Undone Community brings that method to life through monthly reset kits, reflection prompts, homemaking guidance, and a private space for meaningful connection.

Lauren lives in Napa Valley with her husband Ron, their four children, and a lively mix of dogs, cats, and chickens. Her home is never perfect, and that is exactly the point.

Meet the Founder

Frequently Asked Questions…

  • No. This community starts where you are—messy, overwhelmed, in transition, or craving clarity.

  • It’s about your whole life: heart, home, rhythms, wellness, peace, identity, purpose.

  • Never. UNDONE is intentionally slow, soft, and human-paced.

Start Your journey of release, reset, and rebuild.

join the undone community today.